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Post #19 “Everything’s All Right”

This is the view that I woke up to this morning – maybe not so very different to my photo of the frost on post 10, but the white is about 2 inches deeper!

Shortly after taking this photo, my mum phoned.  Not unusual to hear from her, but she began the conversation with “Everything’s all right.”  Now if ever there was a sentence that was just waiting for a “but”!

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So I provided it & asked what had happened, aware that the weather had been so atrocious, with ice & snow causing problems.  Accident, crumpled car, frozen pipes, flood or boiler breakdown all flashed through my mind.

She told me that my dad was OK now but had had a mild stroke the night before.  He was in hospital for observation, but unfortunately not either of the local ones as they didn’t have a stroke doctor on shift when it happened.  Anyway despite the snow, the nearest ambulance had arrived in less than 10 minutes & the roads were clear enough to drive the 25 miles to hospital.

By all accounts, he was examined, scanned & admitted very quickly & should be out in a couple of days.  His stroke was caused by a bleed, which apparently is not quite as serious as a clot & he does seem to have full use of his limbs & faculties.  This is most definitely a relief after losing my father-in-law to cancer very suddenly a month before Christmas.

It’s always a shock when our loved ones show their mortality, but we’re not all invincible.  I saw him recently & I’m in touch with my family regularly enough not to have any regrets if anything happened to any of them.  However, it’s important not to waste a minute, grab every opportunity, keep in touch with everyone you care about, show your love, offer help to others, accept help from them, look after your body, but also indulge occasionally.

End your day by thinking back through what you are grateful for & appreciate, no matter how small.  Start the new day with the same list & ensure you’re able  to add to it at bedtime.  Grab a pretty notebook or journal & write it down or use on of the ‘gratitude’ smartphone apps; print out the pocket gratitude diary from Leonie Dawson – I think her colourful workbooks are fantastic.

Blog #3 The Dentist’s Chair

I had my annual dental check-up today & here’s the proof!

Dental Records

Now this print-out doesn’t mean a great deal to me, but for other reasons, I do appreciate being given the information.  Living in the UK with it’s Welfare State, I shouldn’t have to worry about receiving dental treatment, but I don’t actually qualify for free dental care & would have to pay for examinations under the NHS.  That’s if I was registered at an NHS surgery.  In certain areas, new patients have difficulty receiving a service as there’s nowhere near enough NHS dentists working – it’s just not lucrative enough.  But as a responsible sort of person, keen to ‘look after me teeth‘ (Pam Ayres), I’ve kept up-to-date with my appointments for years & have therefore not dropped off the list of my NHS surgery for not attending.  However they didn’t make it easy to remember when check-ups were due as no reminders were sent out & after 18 months without an appointment, patients’ records would be closed.

Then a couple of years ago, a work colleague left to manage a private surgery for her dentist who was setting up himself in our area.  As
this was someone terrified of dentists & who would willingly drive more than 50 miles for treatment, I figured there was something special
about dentist David, so I decided to make an appointment for a private check-up.

The difference was immediate as soon as I stepped into the smart, clean & bright reception area, was politely welcomed & offered a cup of coffee!  I was a customer & treated as such.  I felt special, important & cared for.  I’m not afraid of dentists despite having experienced pain during recent treatment at my old surgery, but with this kind of welcome, anyone who was nervous would surely feel reassured.  David himself stepped out to greet me & directed me to the dental couch with the softest green leather, a far cry from the last dentist chair I experienced which was patched up with silver duct-tape! During the examination David had the most wonderful gentle & soft hands – no rough poking & stretching my mouth here – total bliss.  He also kept stopping to ensure I was OK, giving me the opportunity to relax my jaw & avoiding the discomfort of trying to maintain a continuous drooling wide open mouth. Each step was explained to me, the ex-ray machine was brought to my side with the photos displayed on a monitor in front of me moments later & I was given the print-out for my records as I left.

As mentioned, I would have to pay for any NHS examinations & treatment, but for a private service I pay a monthly premium which covers the cost of an annual examination & ex-rays if necessary, but further treatment would be extra.  In my opinion it’s worth it, for the moderate additional cost, it’s certainly worth being treated as a valued customer in pleasant surroundings with consideration & gentle hands.  I was handed a small silver envelope as I left with a discreet label stating that the biggest compliment I could give would be to recommend Shine Dental Care, & I do, for all the reasons given above 🙂

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